Tuesday, 17 November 2009

Monday

Colin was much brighter today. Arrived at 4, I found him awake and smiling. He never once has moaned, never once said "why me?". No. All the talk is about the girls, how they are, what they are doing, uni, work and jobs etc. Of course I can bring conversation to a halt in a few words. Today it was to tell him that his mother has fallen and broken her hip. Silence. The Mitchell's are very private people so I won't divulge family business, but suffice to say their troubles do no stop with Colin's accident this year. But luckily, although I took the Mitchell name, I am still a Hunter through and through, and hence very gobby! My girls too are from the Hunter ilk and very vocal. Slowly but surely Colin too has been initiated. Consultants and entourage arrive, all fine in the Mitchell bed. 6 hours DIY, and another 2 hour session to be done. The Occupational therapist appeared. Lothian region are dragging their heels. No social workers has been appointed to us yet. This will slow down movement in organising the house for Colin. I smile and say "lets give them some time", my head shouting "No, lets get on with it, a few more days and I will involve my MP."
Today John and Susan Sykes flew in from Tampa. Tomorrow they are to visit Colin. I have not told him, of course I have mentioned it but Colin is not in charge of his Filofax or blackberry (mum had originally written blueberry which I thought was funny). Days and dates merge into one. so he is not aware that John arrives today and is heading west tomorrow (Tuesday).
Please let Colin be having a good day! He will be emotional, it will be tough. I will probably cry when I see them. But I cannot say how much I appreciate the time they have given to my family.
The Douglas Family- Annie and Jamie, what can I say. Their generosity and constant concern over the months has been overwhelming and consistent. They are very similar to us, wife vivacious and a doer. Husband quieter and laid back. Three gorgeous children and a long marriage, rock solid family values. Thank you.
It is now 3.45am, its going to be a long day!

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