Tuesday, 13 October 2009

The first....

I was asked, very wisely, to start a blog, to keep you all updated about the progress that my Dad is making in hospital.
For those of you who don't know me, and there will be many of you, I'm Melissa, "The Middle Daughter" and the one that knows how to use a computer/the internet/ had actually heard of a Blog.
Firstly, can i say a thank you to EVERYONE, for their kind words, letters, phone calls and flowers. It is so heartwarming to know that my Dad is cared for and respected by all these people, and they were a great comfort to the whole family.

So here it is....THE COLIN MITCHELL RECOVERY BLOG!!
I will try to post as regulary as possible. Keeping you all updated on every finger and toe!

I'll start with a little break down of things that i know about Dad's condition-
When he fell, he broke the C2/C3 vertebrae. There is no brain damage. He has suffered a large laseration to the neck, where his hat had cut it open. Once patched up, he spent two weeks in the ICU at the Western General. They were great and were a fantastic support to Mum in the first few awful days. At first, he was able to move his head left to right and up and down, much to the annoyance of the nurses who were trying to get him to keep his head very still.
The prognosis was not good. Dad was doing nothing for himself apart from keeping his heart beating. The breathing tubes annoyed him greatly. They moved his breathing to his throat for a tracheostmy (sorry about the spelling for any of you who are in the medical profession).

After 2 weeks, he was transferred to the specialist Spinal Unit at the Southern General Hospital in Glasgow. He remains on a high dependancy ward, due to his need for ventilation. He is recieveing excellent care and attention.

The great news- and the reason for starting this blog.
In the past few days, Colin has managed to voluntarily move his toes AND has spent 10 minutes breathing for himself, without any ventilator assistance.

Dad has on several occasions now, been able to wiggle his toes. He has sensation and can feel many parts of his body. This is a great start by any stretch of the imagination, and our hope is that he continues to be able to do this. The question on everyones mind is, "what does this mean?" and to be honest, neither the doctors or ourselves know. This could mean just that, he can wiggle his toes. We work one day at a time. However, from what we were first told in the ICU, this is leaps and bounds that my Dad has come on.
Having first been told, because of the placement of the injury that Dad would never breath off a ventilator, to have him taking breaths all by himself, unassited by machinery, for 10 minutes today is incredible.
The ward are going to work with him to try and increase and sustain the amount of time that he can spend off the vent.

We know that this is going to be a long and tiring journey. There is no cure or quick fix. It is all about determination. And for all of those that know my Dad, you will know, if anyone can do it, it will be him.

Thank you all again for your continuing support. I will try my hardest to keep these reports regular and detailed!
Keep those fingers and toes crossed.
Best wishes to you all
Melissa

28 comments:

  1. Melissa, thanks for setting this up and keeping us all informed on Colin's progress.

    Please let Colin know we are thinking about him. And as you said above, if there is anyone who has the determination to get through this - it's Colin.

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  2. Thank you Melissa,
    I have spent many hours and minute in tears not knowing what or how to say anything not wanting to bother your mum, wanting to go and visit your dad, but not wanting to bother the nurses. I just spend time wondering what if I had done this or that, should I have do that, or should I have done the other or shouldn't I have done anything.
    It is the best news ever that your dad is as ever fighting against the odds, he will win, but let us all just take one step at a time. Let me know when I can go and see him I would love to see that sly old smile of his.
    Thom

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  3. Fantastic news! I'm sure all of us who heard that news slept better last night. Onwards and upwards, even if the progress is slow from here on, it is progress and we are all so thrilled! Well done Melissa for starting this, it will save us all worrying about exhausting your Mum even more, and yet we all want to be kept in touch, it's a great idea. And Thom.......you and Geoff saved his life, please don't beat yourself up, you couldn't have done more. Love to all the Mitchells!

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  4. Been thinking of you all lots. Fab news about toe wiggling. Look fwd to hearing more giant leaps ... and maybe small steps too, to plagorise Neil Armstrong. Will Ramsay

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  5. When we heard Colin had sustained such terrible injuries we were all utterly shocked. We think about Colin and the rest of the family often. It's fantastic news that Colin is showing even the smallest signs of recovery and the best of luck to Colin and the rest of the Mitchells . Keep us posted. Jim Dukes

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  6. Thanks very much for the update Melissa, brilliant of you to keep us all in touch with how you are getting on. Pleased to hear such a positive sounding update and wanted to let you know we are all thinking of you and wishing you well. Laura and Mark.

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  7. Fantastic news! Well
    done , Melissa ,for getting this going- it can't be easy!
    Give our love to Colin and lets hope for a little more wiggling over the next few days.
    with love from all the Middlemisses

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  8. Thank you Melissa for keeping us up to date. This is such good news about your Dad. We are all thinking of him and hoping he makes a speedy recovery..

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  9. Hi Melissa, thanks for setting up the blog. All of us at Sykes are thinking about your dad every day - we miss him as a colleague and a friend. Your update has lifted our spirits. Our thoughts are with your dad and the family at this difficult time.

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  10. Thanks Melissa for sharing the news on your dad. As Kenny said above, we are all thinking of him at Sykes, where there is currently a big gap! From my husband Doug and I, we pass on our best wishes and positive thoughts for more small steps towards a speedy recovery

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  11. Melissa not a day passes without thinking about Colin and all of you. Amazing news, so positive. Love The Anderson Family.

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  12. dear melissa it was my birthday yesterday and is dads today and that is the best birthday present we could have wished for. thank you very much for writing this blog and keeping us all in the loop. best wishes and all our love the douglas and archer family

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  13. This is absolutely fantastic news Mel and all us McPhail's are thinking of you lots. We are delighted to hear that Colin is making such great progress and we look forward to further updates. Wishing you all the best and sending you our love, The McPhails x x x

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  14. Hi Melissa, really appreciate you setting this up on behalf of your mum, your sisters and your dad - you're a star! We have been hoping and praying for your dad, and have also been thinking a lot about all of you. It was great to hear the positive news today about his toes. I am really looking forward to visiting him when he feels up to that, but in the meantime tell him our thoughts are always with him, and you guys. Les, Sandra, Scott and Lisa XXXX

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  15. Melissa, thanks for thinking of all of us. The blog is great and the news about your dad's progress is fantastic and certainly put a smile on my face today....however, I have to say I would expect no less from someone with Colins determination!! Looking forward to reading about the next step forward. Love to all of you. Jude xxx

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  16. Thanks so much for sharing with us. Over here at Sykes in the US, Colin is in our thoughts and prayers everyday. I look forward to continued news on a steady recovery. He will work through this and his tenacity will prevail. Best wishes. Mike Kipphut

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  17. We are delighted to hear of Colin's progress. We have been thinking of him continuously and the boys were especially pleased with the news. Looking forward to following his continual recovery. Send him our love.
    The Doves
    Colin Rhona Adam and Matthew XXXX

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  18. Thanks for the Blog a fine idea.

    I want your Dad to know he is an inspiration in his effort and will. It has been said before but is true. Great and big things start from tiny seeds and steps. If the thoughts, wishes and will of Colin, friends and family count for anything he will continue to show the nurses what he is made of.

    Much love and happy thoughts to Colin and his family.

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  19. Thinking of Colin and the family every day. Fantastic news about the small steps forward. The Middlemiss', and no doubt all others, are willing that this continues. Let your Dad know that any time he wants a visitor in hospital to let me know and I will be there.

    George Middlemiss

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  20. Hey Colin,
    God you've got me crying again, but for good reasons this time! I'll keep crying as long as you promise to keep getting better. I think that is a fair deal, don't you. Think about you lots and maybe get to visit you at some point. Love to everyone. Gilly. XXX

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  21. Hi Colin, What great news.You can do it...you will not have a choice with all those bossy females nagging you! Think about you all the time..wishing and praying it will all come good..Thanks Melissa for doing this..It's very kind,brave and unselfish of you all to think of others just now.xx

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  22. Hi to all of you,
    This is a great idea of yours Melissa! You have all been on my mind constantly since hearing of the accident but, having initially spoken with Charlotte and Shelley I didn't want to add to your exhaustion by phoning all the time. So this way we can all keep up with Colin's progress and continue to send love and hope to all of you. Charlotte, you said that once Colin had made up his mind to recover, that's exactly what he'd do and now he's proved you right (how irritating for him)!! We are all willing you on!! With love to you all from Lynn and the boys XXX

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  23. I am so delighted to hear that Colin is showing some signs of recovery. You have all been in my thoughts ever since I heard about the accident. It was truly shocking.

    Please send Colin my best wishes. I think about him every day and I am sure some of the fight he shows on the field will aid his recovery immensely.

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  24. Hi Melissa
    Do you want posts about hawking etc. I don't want to post something that will cause Colin more frustration rather that good. Let me know.
    Andrew

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  25. Dear Colin, Charlotte, Shelly, Melissa and Louise
    The Paterson's have been so pleased to hear of Colin's progress. We can only imagine how you all feel day to day or moment to moment. The blog is a great idea and we look forward to following what we trust will be Colin's road to further recovery.

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  26. Dear Melissa
    This is such a wonderful idea - so many of us are constantly wondering how things are going for you but feel you have so much more to do than answer all our phonecalls and questions.
    I know you and your sisters are strong - you are a true inspiration and I know your parents are immensely proud of you all.
    Fingers and toes crossed - if anyone can do it its your dad. xx

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  27. To the Mitchell Family,

    Thank you for arranging this blog as a great channel of communication for all Colin's well wishers - long term "hospitalisation" is so exhausting for all the family, the last thing you need after a day's visiting is a long round of phone calls! The blog lets you know, though, the huge level of support that all the family has from so many people.

    My thoughts and prayers are with Colin every day and although this is unimaginably tough for you, the love and support Colin has, coupled with his own immense spirit, will win the battle.

    On a practical note, I only live 30minutes from the hospital and would like to offer my home as a base for anyone coming any distance to visit Colin now or in the future - you are more than welcome to use it for overnighting/weekending/whatever! My number is 07721-792107 - please just contact me to arrange anything that will make it easier for Colin and the family in the coming months.

    Thinking of you every day,

    Love and best wishes from

    Gaynor xxx

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  28. Wonderful idea, we just wanted to know how Colin is progressing, but didn't want to annoy you with all the calls and e-mails. Keep on trucking, know we are thinking of you, and if you need anything, and I mean anything, you only have to ask.

    Thinking of you all on this side of the pond,

    Kim Steve Nicky and Steph. Michigan.

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